I’m not sure if all the states are the same, but in CA it is nearly impossible to make an adult seek medical treatment. Hopefully she will decide to leave on her own, but I don’t see that happening. In her mind, she’s got a free place to live where she thinks she shares ownership & that means money. She can push your mother around & that means power. She probably thinks she’s got it made. 
If your mother can’t man up & tell her to leave, your best hope might be to get Adult Protective Services involved.
Also, can you get those boxes out of the house, like in a storage unit?
Good luck with the family meeting.


If your mother can’t man up & tell her to leave, your best hope might be to get Adult Protective Services involved.
Also, can you get those boxes out of the house, like in a storage unit?
Good luck with the family meeting.

