We're back. Long visit. Emotionally draining.
Things went very well after they heard the doctor say that he fully supports my decision to not do a prostatectomy and that I'm "doing everything possible to take care of DH and I'm doing a great job". Emotionally draining or no, they needed to hear that from the doctor. We got to the clinic a few minutes after them so they know I didn't prompt that comment.
They both actually talked to me more than they ever have when we went for something to eat afterwards.