BYC Café

[pennyJo1960]

Dobie I understand I gave up on a relationship with my Brother his girlfriend is the toxic one but he lives with her I don't.. Have to know when to walk away for our own sanity.

 

[aart]

I don't have to. That's part of the issue. CS and my other sister have it now. I found this out on Monday. All through a serious of lies and twisting of words.

Frickin' scary, that it can just be transferred like that.

 

[LaFleche]

don't have to. That's part of the issue. CS and my other sister have it now. I found this out on Monday. All through a serious of lies and twisting of words. May they forever me happy in their psychosis.

Sounds, as if they deserve each other.

I'm actually relieved to be completely done with her

Yes, after the hurt the feeling of relief will overtake like a big weight is taken off your chest. And you can start to heal and focus on your own life and needs.

I will focus on me and DH and our home.

The best you can do.

And I hope you don't relapse and let them take advantage of you again.

 

[DobieLover]

And I hope you don't relapse and let them take advantage of you again.

I'll never do anything for either of them. Ever. I've never felt so unappreciated and wronged in my life. And, yes, it still stings.
I've not sleep well. Poor DH found me crying in the living room at 2:30 in the morning yesterday. He kept asking what was wrong regardless that I'd told him at least 6 times. He's just sad that I'm sad. That made me pull it together. He needs me and actually does care about me and appreciate all that I do for him.
Makes sense to give it all to him. He's worthy.

 

[sourland]

Yep. And her toxic influence has now seeped into my mother. For the sake of my heart and mind, I'm done with both of them.

Friends are the family we make for ourselves.

 

[DobieLover]

Frickin' scary, that it can just be transferred like that.

She's still legally able to have a new POA drawn up.
The day of the intervention, when I was taking her home, she mentioned that CS hated hybrids. I'd been talking about my hybrid Kia and said, "Why? They consume less gas and are better for the environment."
Mom said, "Not hybrid CARS, hybrid PEOPLE."
Huh?
Yes, she thinks there are hybrid people.
Hybrid with what??
I don't know but they are evil.
Oh brother.
And THIS was a better choice for managing her finances than me.
I saved that woman at least $60,000 with everything I've done for her since Dad died. But I'm not good enough.

 

[aart]

He's just sad that I'm sad. That made me pull it together. He needs me and actually does care about me and appreciate all that I do for him.
Makes sense to give it all to him. He's worthy.

You need to have someplace and someone who you can vent to and get some relief.

 

[aart]

Yes, she thinks there are hybrid people.
Hybrid with what??
I don't know but they are evil.

Sounds like CS is an apple not far from the tree?

 

[pennyJo1960]

Good grief Dobie you need a great scream of about 20 minutes

 

[pennyJo1960]

I'll never do anything for either of them. Ever. I've never felt so unappreciated and wronged in my life. And, yes, it still stings.
I've not sleep well. Poor DH found me crying in the living room at 2:30 in the morning yesterday. He kept asking what was wrong regardless that I'd told him at least 6 times. He's just sad that I'm sad. That made me pull it together. He needs me and actually does care about me and appreciate all that I do for him.
Makes sense to give it all to him. He's worthy.

That is the same as we are.. One day I may have to care for him I would anything he needs The one Son knows this. The other one does not