**BYC= Most friendly website?**

[Fierlin1182]

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I suppose some people really don't realise that people actually NOTICE they do this! I have seen people say they don't exclude, or form cliques, when really from the outside it does look that way.

Most people are wonderful, caring individuals...and it doesn't always come across on the internet that way.

Well, actually I'm not really wonderful and caring, but I hope I come across that way.

I do try.​

 

[babymakes6]

ray's two cents :

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I suppose some people really don't realise that people actually NOTICE they do this! I have seen people say they don't exclude, or form cliques, when really from the outside it does look that way.

Most people are wonderful, caring individuals...and it doesn't always come across on the internet that way.

Well, actually I'm not really wonderful and caring, but I hope I come across that way.

I do try.

Yes, you do.

I have noticed the signatures on a lot of the "youngers." I feel that could cause some people to feel left out, that they aren't anyone's ""BFF." To me, that is a clique. You can be good friends with somebody, but do you really need to advertise the whole list of your best friends to everyone? That also screams that you are a minor.

BYC is a very friendly place to be, and I am hoping that it will still be that way when the size doubles again.

 

[OwlLover]

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I suppose some people really don't realise that people actually NOTICE they do this! I have seen people say they don't exclude, or form cliques, when really from the outside it does look that way.

Most people are wonderful, caring individuals...and it doesn't always come across on the internet that way.

Well, actually I'm not really wonderful and caring, but I hope I come across that way.

I do try.​

Yes, you do.

I have noticed the signatures on a lot of the "youngers." I feel that could cause some people to feel left out, that they aren't anyone's ""BFF." To me, that is a clique. You can be good friends with somebody, but do you really need to advertise the whole list of your best friends to everyone? That also screams that you are a minor.

BYC is a very friendly place to be, and I am hoping that it will still be that way when the size doubles again.

Yeah. Maybe I'm just hypersensitive, but the whole BFF list thing is a little irritating. Even though it doesn't hurt me, it can hurt other, younger children on here.

 

[Fierlin1182]

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I suppose some people really don't realise that people actually NOTICE they do this! I have seen people say they don't exclude, or form cliques, when really from the outside it does look that way.

Well, actually I'm not really wonderful and caring, but I hope I come across that way.

I do try.

Yes, you do.

I have noticed the signatures on a lot of the "youngers." I feel that could cause some people to feel left out, that they aren't anyone's ""BFF." To me, that is a clique. You can be good friends with somebody, but do you really need to advertise the whole list of your best friends to everyone? That also screams that you are a minor.

BYC is a very friendly place to be, and I am hoping that it will still be that way when the size doubles again.

Yeah. Maybe I'm just hypersensitive, but the whole BFF list thing is a little irritating. Even though it doesn't hurt me, it can hurt other, younger children on here.

Very true! I've seen all sorts of bickers break out on the Signature Rating thread because someone or other has been left out of their friend's list.

It personally doesn't offend me, I go around hoping to make friends with everyone. I've always been more of a drifter rather than particularly attached to one group.

And babymakes6, thank you.

 

[babymakes6]

You are welcome-I personally thought you were a lot older than you are. There are a few "youngers" on here that I have been very impressed with, but I don't know many of them.

 

[Fierlin1182]

A lot of people have told me they didn't think I was a teenager. I guess that's a good thing.

Eenie's another one of the RR "youngers", I've seen mentioned.

 

[fuzziebutt]

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Not rude, but sometimes some of the new ones can feel ignored or left out. I know that I have felt this way, and still do sometimes.

 

[babymakes6]

ray's two cents :

A lot of people have told me they didn't think I was a teenager. I guess that's a good thing.

Eenie's another one of the RR "youngers", I've seen mentioned.

I didn't know you were into stocks, actually!

Sorry, now we've hijacked this thread!

.......and now, back to the regularly scheduled conversation! (whispering..... sorry ......)​

 

[OwlLover]

ray's two cents :

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Yeah. Maybe I'm just hypersensitive, but the whole BFF list thing is a little irritating. Even though it doesn't hurt me, it can hurt other, younger children on here.

Very true! I've seen all sorts of bickers break out on the Signature Rating thread because someone or other has been left out of their friend's list.

It personally doesn't offend me, I go around hoping to make friends with everyone. I've always been more of a drifter rather than particularly attached to one group.

And babymakes6, thank you.

Personally, I don't really care about being on someone's BFF list. But do you really need to place it where other people can get upset by it? Just be kind to everyone and hang out with your best friends.

 

[OwlLover]

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Not rude, but sometimes some of the new ones can feel ignored or left out. I know that I have felt this way, and still do sometimes.

Yeah. This is why I'm a big believer in not putting that in your siggie.