Thanks! That makes sense. I guess I just had hopes of the cata cuddling together and sleeping or hanging put together, etc. Like I've seen pictures of. But I suppose that's not always the case. I was kind of thinking though too that another cat, especially if it was a bigger male, might give her some more confidence too since she's a little skittish or might help defend her from the dog since she doesn't use her claws on him. That was my hope anyway. That another cat would provide confidence but also that they would be friends and cuddle together. And she's pretty easy going so I don't think she'd be vicious but it sounds like that's likely not going to be the case? Even if she didn't attack him she might just go into hiding and be stressed out??
I think this might have worked better when she was a little bit younger but now at almost 8 I think maybe a playful rambunctious kitten might be more annoying than anything? And having two kittens (so they could play together and not with her) I suppose might result in 2 intruders or the two younger ones being best friends and excluding her? Which would defeat the purpose..
Hmmm...
So it seems my hope of introducing a new kitten and having them be best friends just isn't very realistic?
I do wonder if it's possible though....
But it's also more vet bills. And more cats for my brother to be allergic to. I was also hoping though that I could get another friendly cat like Mittens was so that they could have a cat they like again.
But I think a second dog might be the better option. But that's not realistic either cause Gator likes all the attention for himself plus he's getting older