While I am slightly offended by being chastised for my statement - I agree with your sentiment. My husband was not on board with chickens. He said no. Rather than steamrolling him- I asked what his concerns were. The why mattered to me. We talked about them. I did more research and shared with him. Then one day he said- alright let's go ahead and try. By nature he was not a country boy. And we had lived our whole marriage in the city up to the point. 14 years of marriage. Mutual respect and communication eventually resulted into ducks, chickens and geese. We are growing into a new way of life together. Together. And the joy we both feel and the sorrows we both feel as we move along in this journey are shared, rather than on me because he was not on board.I agree with that wholeheartedly! I never wanted someone to provide me with or allow me to have what I want. I still don't. Of course, I was lucky and grew up as an overly-independent cowgirl on a working ranch and had most of my critters already (including the afore-mentioned country boy) The beloved man I married is a former city boy who has had to learn to live country
and is thriving in it What is that saying about "we grow where we are planted"?![]()
I also love that photo Amy Beth! It is a really sweet shot.
I really love my husband and he is a fine example of what a man should be. I cannot imagine not encouraging my daughters to marry one day if they choose when they have such a wonderful example of a dad and husband to measure up to. They also have family that have not married or married and chosen not to have kids. Their life is in their own hands.
But I thank everyone for their opinions.