I know...when your really like a bird, it's hard to trust that someone else would give them the kind of home you would like for them. I think a rooster can be "fixed," but it's generally done early, and generally done so the rooster will grow bigger (for eating). I'm not sure whether you could find a vet to do something like that or not???? Are you not allowed to have roosters in your area? There are some who almost never crow. I've just recently adopted one, and haven't heard him crow since he's been here...???