Jackie, I'm not trying to be confrontational at all, and please don't take it that way. But, now another word thats not liked is added to the list. Hate. I hate pediphiles (sp). Is that wrong to say? Its true. I would as soon have them executed rather than continue their miserable life. See my point. I feel like people should be taught to use the proper word at the proper time, not just don't use that word. If I'm comming out of church and my car has a flat. While changing the flat the jack slips and the car falls on my arm. I'm not gonna say golly, gee wiz. I don't care if the pastors grandmother is there a word that I don't normally use is gonna come out of my mouth.
The more I think about it the more confused I get about the reasoning behind these "bad" words.
Yes, you have the right to determine what words are used around your kids. But why does the rest of society have to respect that. Its like here in Illinois they just passed a law about no smoking indoors anywhere. Now, if I spend 200K and buy a bar, and hire only people that smoke, and only want customers that smoke. And I am willing to lose the business of non smokers why can't I make that business decission myself without being forced. Now thats different than here, because NiftyChicken has decided that he wants a place where the other word for poo is not allowed. Its his board, I can respect that or move on. But the non smokers feel they have a right to tell the smoking bar owner he can't smoke in the bar he paid for. Thats what I guess I'm griping about. Why do people keep forcing their values on other people. I should make the decission how I talk, you should make the dicision about weather you want your kids around me. If you decide not then its your responsibility to make sure your kids are not where I am and not mine to change my behavior. Now I personally would not curse, even the "little words" in front of kids, its not the kind of example I want to set. I do that by choice. I just don't like being forced to conform. Personally I would rather see the Mods decide, I'm sure they know Nifty's wishes. Two warnings and your gone because thats the rules. But I have no right to force the issue.
The story you told about the kid in school is really sad. Its good your there to help him out.