Yes and no! She has two brothers , the youngest is severely handicapped from birth and is in care, he doesn't even recognise Mary. The older is a pain in the butt and will do nothing to help. He didn't even go to the hospital yesterday. Mary is more than capable but it would be nice if someone helped her share the burden of this. I'm off to water her greenhouse in a minute as she hadn't realised we had a very warm day yesterday as she had been in doors all day. It's a new greenhouse and she has it full of new seedlings. As far as she knows she will come back at weekend as she has builders starting work on Monday so must be here to set them off.