I fear I was once like that(mind you not nearly as bad) but I really wasn't trying to be so confusing and as it turned out were more missing each others point because it was all through email. When we got there turns out what she meant by "do you want the parents?" was do I want to meet them? And she realized I was more flexible about price and breed than I sounded in my emails. It all ended well and I will certainly do business with her again. But judging by your guys' posts things didn't go nearly as smoothly.