I will update as things progress. I hope you can find some harmony, but glad you have plan b and c available to you!I'll be interested to know how this works out for you. Hope you'll keep this thread updated with your progress.
I'd love for my two cockerels to live in harmony with all my hens/pullets. Right now, at 5 mos, they are each in their own coop and run because they are just too, inadvertently, aggressive with the girls, and the larger cockerel is not tolerant of the smaller anymore.
I also can keep them separate for life with their own flock each, but I will need to get more hens for that. I also have some wishful thinking going on here.