I suspect she's in a lot of pain. Just give supportive care.
Sigh, dating... I suspect I'll have the same problem most of us on here would if they were to be dating again. We see value in things that so many just write off unless it has 4 legs. He was a nice professional man and I wore a nice black dress with heels and he just thought the whole chicken thing was a little 'quaint'. I mean, who uses that word, right? And then when I explained I am not a huge drinker nor do I drink soda... It just put me in the weird category. We are suppose to have dinner again next week but suspect there is no chance for anything more. It use to be love me love my dogs.... and now it's, 'love me, love my family, love my dogs, and love my chickens...' I think that classifies me as having way too much baggage. My son teases me and says I'm going to shoot right past the crazy cat lady to become the crazy chicken lady... I smile and say, 'at least chickens don't carry toxoplasmosis...'.
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I told Bob long ago that if anything happened to him or to our relationship I would be perfectly content to stay single the rest of my life
Easy to say when you have a companion, I know, but it's hard to find people who don't think you're nuts for having the life you have. I mean, we have 8 cats - 6 of them orphans from the landfill raised by hand, one is a cripple because he was in a rolloff box that was dumped and the operator spotted him just as he reached the load with the blade of the compactor - and how he spotted him, to this day I will never know, he was a two week old Siamese kitten. I took him to my vet, who tried to set his broken leg, lost him to anesthesia and revived him (I was standing right there watching), and wouldn't charge me for it. Leg didn't heal right, and he only has one toe with a nail on that foot and three on the other rear leg, but he races around here like Mario Andretti - smallest cat in the house, and thinks he is King. The last two were supposed to be fosters - except by the time I found them a home Bob had fallen in love with them and was so upset I cancelled the placement. No more fosters.Anyway, who knows, maybe your date is spending today thinking how lucky he is to have found you, and if not, he should!
