You have a point. Well spiders on the other hand I hate. I don't kill them; because I am afraid if I step on them they will bite me through my shoe. My babies used to step on spiders for me! Well I don't kill them by smashing them. But I do spray the house. My arachnophobia used to be so great I would nearly faint at the site of a spider. I nearly beat my first husband to death for throwing a dead spider on me when I was about 8 months pregnant. Needless to say he never did it again!! I still uncontrollably tremble and or freak out if I get one on or too close to me.
I bought an 160 year old house about 30 years ago and that got me more used to spiders so at least I could handle it if I saw one. I still freak out if I run into a web though!
I was bit by a brown recluse twice in my life. The first one was when I was 17. We hadn't heard much about them at that time. No internet,only one tv channel, and just a small town local paper! My parents didn't take me to the doctor until the next day when they realized there might be something serious going on. I spent my entire summer getting 4 shots a day for the remainder of the summer. It had gotten into my blood stream and caused some real problems. Then maybe 20 years later I was bitten on the ankle by one in my flower garden. I never even thought about recluse being outside! Within 30 minutes my leg was swollen the size of a cantaloupe all the way past my knee and rising. Apparently my body recognized the poison and reacted with every histamine it could produce. I rushed to the ER and it actually was no big deal cause I caught it so early. But it threw my whole body off and for the next 6 months I came down with every possible disease or organism your body carries or gets infected by. Everything was so out of wack it just went crazy.
There is nothing cozy about a spider. At least I could reason there is a charm (no pun intended) about certain snakes. I still don't want to own one or run into them in the yard.
You'd be surprised to know I bid over $300 once on an anaconda skin that was about 20 foot long mounted on a framed board thing. I got way out bid. That thing was so huge it was almost impossible to imagine a snake that large. It could have easily swallowed a man. I just thought it would be the coolest conversation piece.
I also kept a copperhead in my house in a screen topped aquarium for 8 months once. I was actually quite fond of him. He was small and I raked him up in the leaves on a warm January day. I didn't want to leave him because I didn't want to get bitten. I lived at the base of a very tall heavily rocky treed hill. He was slow moving because it was winter so I caught him and kept him. I had a rock in there and I went out and pulled up rocks and dug for bugs for him all winter and through the summer. I had just a jar lid with some water for him. He actually stayed under the rock except when I put his bugs in. The only time he ever got really aggressive was when I put him in a bucket to take him to the lake to be released that fall. He hated that bucket and tried to get revenge for being put in there. So I did have a poisonous snake in my house for awhile. That is the only one though.
My boys used to catch these little ring snakes. I kept my flower pots in a half whiskey barrel in a covered patio area. So my kids figured out the snakes couldn't get out and they used to drop them in the whiskey barrel. I'd reach in to grab a pot and pull out a snake! The boys used to laugh and laugh about that.
Then another time one of the cats brought a live snake in through the cat door. It was in the kitchen. When I tried to catch it it went under the stove. Then I couldn't find it anywhere. It must have been two weeks later and we still hadn't found the snake. I had just said to DH, "Sure would be funny if you stuck your foot in your boot and that snake was in there." He slid one foot in his boot, then slid the other one in and shot across the kitchen screaming. Sure enough the snake had managed to crawl in his boot. I laughed so hard I had tears. He to this day doesn't believe I didn't put that snake in there. But I really didn't.