Not sure what all that was about, but I want to say one thing: It is very hot outside. (Duh! that was a profound statement!) People are short tempered and more sensitive than normal. Many years ago I was a police officer in Oklahoma City. During high heat the domestic calls, fights, homicides, and other violent crimes escalated by 300%. Try to stay cool. If someone says something to upset you walk away; let yourself calm down and then reread it without your heart on your sleeve. We all have mutual interests here and we come here because these people understand enthusiasm for our birds. Remember, unless there are names mentioned it doesn't mean a comment was directed at you; And even if it was, remember the person might be smiling as (s)he typed.