I will admit, I can do some of the dressing, and DH does the butchering; I try to help, but am more squeamish....I learned long ago not to judge one or another, we each have differences, that is what makes the world more interesting.
I had a little chuckle at this. When we started, although keeping the chooks was my idea, I decided DH had to be the one to do the butchering. We did the research together but I definitely left it up to him to do the deed. I would catch and hold and let him do the rest. What I wasn't prepared for was that he wouldn't just take charge and get the job done. He was as afraid of hurting them or causing them to suffer as I was, so he was hesitant and nervous. He did eventually get the job done but it was months before we had to do it again and by then he'd forgotten how he did it the first time and we had to go through it all again. The last few...I've ended up doing. First, he was out of town on a business trip and not due back for a week and I had a roo who had started crowing and didn't want my "bad" neighbors reporting me, so I had to take matters into my own hands. A few weeks later we had to do it again and I assumed DH would take over since he was there but when I saw how hesitant he was, I realized it was just as hard on him as me and it wasn't fair to make him do it, so I took the implement from him and did it myself. That seemed to work better for both of us. He is right in there helping me pluck and so on but over time we realized that as much as I dislike doing the deed, I'm actually better at it than he is.
Wow, that is a boatload of chicks you have! They will keep you busy for sure. What breeds did you get?