Well we have had a really trying week. My dh has been suffering from a back injury. He has advanced disc degeneration and decided to see a chiropractor to try and get some relief from the pain but it did more harm than good. He has been wheelchair bound most of the week. I have installed grab bars along the living room and have a few more to install for him to be able to get around the house. The V.A is setting up a new scan to determine how bad his back is and will be sending him to their pain management clinic to put him on pain medication. It has been really hard for me to care for him as well as the two little boys. The older kids help a little bit when they are home but have spent most of their time at grandpas so they don't have to help. Its kinda funny to have to set up the wheelchair and get him into it and then take the boys one on each hip to try to go grocery shopping until we get to the carts. And then there's the tiredness. Between the boys and dh not sleeping well lately I haven't slept much myself. On a brighter note, the pool is drained and moved, half of the water system for the flock is installed, the compost box is built, grab bars are installed and I have become really good with a screw gun! Just seems like we can't catch a break this year.
I am so sorry to hear that. It was hard enough for me to manage two little boys and my little farm by myself, I can't imagine caring for an injured loved one at the same time. Kodo's to you for managing it, that's strength.
The V.A. has always done well by my Dad, lets hope that they do well by your husband too. My grandmother always used to tell me "Well, think on it this way Kasey, when things hit rock bottom, no where to go but up." Things can't stay bad forever, you have my prayers.