It is very painful to lose a parent. My thoughts are with you on this difficult day.
Sharol
Sharol
I am so thankful that you people made it through the storm last night. I watched the weather off and on past midnight last night. Sure hope everyone else did okay without great losses.
Yesterday was a pretty awful day. One of my sons and daughter in law came down to visit and to see my Mom. I couldn't believe how awful she was doing. She was gasping for air and the morphine wasn't working and her O2 SAT wouldn't come up. We left about 6 and went to eat. We got back to the house about 8:00 and they headed home to Manhattan. About an hour later the phone rang. They had transferred Mom to the hospital by ambulance. They had been unable to get her O2 above 59. They took exrays.
Basically the doctor said she was trying to die. Her lungs just aren't doing able to do the oxygen carbon dioxide transfer any more. They put a special bag on her to add with transfer and put her on 15 liters of oxygen which is the highest setting. I finally left well after midnight when she was finally sleeping.
I will probably be camping out at the hospital today. I was afraid to leave last night. I guess one of the scariest things is they have no single rooms. They all have two beds. They had removed everything from the room but her bed and one chair. That made me think they didn't think she could possibly make it. Watchign her suffer is ripping my heart out.