Thanks for you kind words all! We've chosen what we're doing based on comfort levels in our social group but in general our rules are;
No shared surfaces (Our chairs and side tables get labeled with names on masking tape. When we did cornhole last month everyone had their own bags.)
Masks when not eating
6' apart when masked, 10' when eating, no contact
Outdoors only, no shared-contact activities
Hand sanitizer or hand washing before/after eating/picking up food or before entering the house to use the bathroom (we sterilize the bathroom before and after)
Single serving food, only touch what you're going to take
Any at-home food prep is done with frequent hand washing, masks, gloves and hair net/hats/bandannas
Anything that has been on the surface or handled in the last 3 days or needs to be touched gets wiped in bleach water (door knobs, cooking tools, etc.)
No more than 3 households present, the more isolated the better
Two weeks minimum incubation time between gatherings (a month is better)
No one with symptoms welcome
This is our second post-corona gathering and we're just taking it all slow with lots of extra precautions. It's a LOT of work to make sure it's all clean and sanitary though.