This isn't entirely correct. As ducks CAN carry the crested gene and not show it. And therefore produce it when mated properly.That is so cool! So, I looked up the genetics, because I LOVE genetics. And, the crested gene is a dominant gene. The single dominant gene makes crested. Two crested genes results in a dead duckling.
Thus, any duck which doesn't look crested, isn't.
Breeding two crested ducks together will result in an average of twenty five percent of the ducklings dying. Fifty percent of the ducks will have a crest. Twenty five percent of the ducks will be normal (no crested gene).
Bred to a duck with no crest, the results are fifty percent crested and fifty percent non crested.
Thus, there is no point in breeding two crested ducks as there is no increase in crested offspring. Plus, who wants to breed ducks knowing that a quarter of them are going to be fatally deformed?
There is no such thing as a duck with two crested genes, since that is fatal. So, if you breed your duck to a non crested duck, you very well may end up with a good proportion of crested offspring and there is almost no chance that the offspring will have the fatal double dose of the crested gene.
I say almost no chance because, as you've observed, the gene can occur spontaneously.
BUT SO COOL!!!!
And crested to crested will produce crested, higher chances of LARGER crests too which is why some people do breed this way.