Dentist Pulls Out All Her Ex-Boyfriend's Teeth After Split

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I seem to remember seeing this on another thread: a tattoo artist who exacted revenge on a cheating girlfriend by tattooing something uncomplimentary and unpleasant on her back. I don't remember anyone saying, "what a jerk!" over that one.
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Hoax or not, what I thought we were talking about was opinions. What's sauce for the goose should be sauce for the gander, and I grant you, often it isn't. But let's not paint with too broad a brush, shall we? Not every person is blaming the victim here, just because he's male!
 
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cupman said:
I agree with Matthew on this one. What if a mechanic cut the brakes on his ex girlfriends car and she crashed severely hurting herself. Would we all be laughing and asking how stupid she was? No, most certainly not. I'm sure it would be your typical lynch mob of replies.
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Heck yeah I'd be laughing at how stupid she was..... People that become "victims" of this kind of treatment are partly to blame for their situation and need to take some of the responsibility for it.

Not saying what the vengeful person did was right... but, a little common sense goes along way for both sides.
 
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cupman said:
I have a feeling the second that happened to your sister you would have an entirely different reaction.
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you don't know me very well then. I would be more than willing to tell my sister she was a freakin' idiot. This DOES sound like the kind of stupid thing that she would do because those are the kind of men she gets involved in. I love her to death, but yes, I have told her to her face that it was HER fault that she was in the ER again after getting beaten by her boyfriend. Seeing as this was her 3rd trip with this particular guy, not counting all the beatings from the losers she dated before.
 
SillyChicken said:
Heck yeah I'd be laughing at how stupid she was..... People that become "victims" of this kind of treatment are partly to blame for their situation and need to take some of the responsibility for it.

Not saying what the vengeful person did was right... but, a little common sense goes along way for both sides.
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see, I assumed by going to her ex, he assumed she would act like a decent human being living in a civilized world of laws and rules where you don't physically assault someone no matter how much your feelings were hurt.

But then i do not fall into the Blame the victim mentality.

I guess I'm asking for it by remaining nice, cordial, and in some cases friends, with a majority of my ex's. I have dealt with some of them on business and i expected them to act like mature adults just as they expect me to do the same.

Besides we have no idea the full details of why h chose to go to her after a breakup.
 
dainerra said:
you don't know me very well then. I would be more than willing to tell my sister she was a freakin' idiot. This DOES sound like the kind of stupid thing that she would do because those are the kind of men she gets involved in. I love her to death, but yes, I have told her to her face that it was HER fault that she was in the ER again after getting beaten by her boyfriend. Seeing as this was her 3rd trip with this particular guy, not counting all the beatings from the losers she dated before.
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Yeah that's a good way to help a DV victim, tell them it's their fault (sarcasm)

Many people who fall into the DV cycle need help, counseling, and help with their self esteem. By telling them its their fault it only adds fuel to their belief that they deserve to be in that situation. Many times they don't understand the difference and are pre-dispositioned to be abused. Likely they have been abused or witnessed sanctioned abuse as children, verbal or otherwise.

Instead of knocking her down she should be lifted up. No I am not saying you should try to save her because in the end the change comes from her, but being verbally abusive (calling her names like "idiot" and so on) is only going to make things worse.
 

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