Thanks Amberjem, I'll try and mix it for a few days, we had a sitter last week, and I thought there was plenty of food left before we took off.
At this point I am just very excited to be moving next spring. We go back into negotiations next week (house/water inspections still have to be done) as we know the septic system inspection failed. Depending on the fix: anywhere from 4000-18000 dollars. The $4000 fix may only be temporary.
Then the whole "moving the ducks here for 5 months just to move them back with us".
Needless to say, big things to stress about. We don't want to press the seller into a lower selling point unless she offers. We already negotiated well on some other parts and she is going into heart surgery soon so unable to do much work if any at all.