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to your #2 how else am i going to explain a three year old ? espec. if they are not raised around horses, you have to go down to their level
# 6 do you have kids or have you ever been one?
I cannot put three kids in my cart and still do the shopping. So they have to walk NEAR me.
9# i dont like vegetarians that tell me how unhealthy it is to eat meat and how the animals must suffer. I know what i am doing.
#6? Young goats or children? I do NOT have kids, but I do have 6 children! I go thru this EVERY DAY at work:
Picture this- I work in a fast-food fish restaurant-Menu: "Kids Meals"!
I listen patiently while the customer(s) orders from the menu board, orders a "kids" meal, and I'm tapping on the register keys everything the customer(s) are ordering. After they've finished ordering, I read back to them what they've ordered and I say children's meal........btw........on the registers, it's "kids" meals! LOL!!
1.)kids are young goats, NOT children!
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I had a niece almost get hit by 3 cars in 5 minutes,after being yelled at by her mother, an older relative jerked my niece out of harm's way each time! I kid you not-I was there to witness!
Parents are supposed to be security for their children, but, when you teach your children to run from you in fear of being hit or spanked, after they've done something wrong, you have taught your children that YOU are the danger!
When my husband was working with the Military Sealift Command as a civilian onboard a ship, I was raising our first son by myself. Terence was just under a year old and I was pregnant with our next son. I had taught Terence that when he came when I called to him, he got a smile, hugs, kisses and "I love you" said to him.
If he was out of my arm's length when I saw him doing anything he wasn't to be doing, I'd go to him and take him away from that area (stairs), telling him no playing on stairs, and put him inside his playpen for 5 minutes, this was done without a smile, hugs.....Things like touching electrical sockets, plants, trash, ect...I would slap his hand once and say don't touch that! I would then pick him up, and again without a smile, hugs.....put him inside his playpen for 5 minutes. After 5 minutes were up, I would go to Terence and pick him up with a smile, hugs, the whole bit!
I never had Terence run from me in public like I've seen other children run from their parents at the age of one.
My husband got back from ship and what did he do the first time Terence did wrong?
Called Terence to him and spanked him !
I kid you not! Terence learned from his father to run when his name was called!
I explained to my husband the way I had been raising Terence and that this way was working. His stupid response was We are going to raise him the way He was raised "the RIGHT" way, NOT the 'WHITE" way. That's why my neice ran from her mother!! In their family, children are diciplined by being beaten! I was raised the same way, running from my mom or dad because I didn't want to be hit with the belt, but, I was NEVER BEATEN. Me and my children are living a better life without that way of life. My children, ages 19 thru 11, have thanked me for raising them up differently! BTW, my children are all mixed- BLACK,WHITE,RED!
WHOA and WOW! I'm so sorry this took up so much room! I just needed to rant about things that get on my nerves!