Drowning doesn't look like drowning...

Years ago my son went to daycare preschool that had a shallow (2') pool and offered swimming lessons. Since there are so many backyard pools here, I signed him up. Everything sounded great: very low child: teacher ratio, experienced teachers, yada, yada. On the last day of the first session, they invited parents to watch. Since it WAS primarily daycare, only a few of the parents were actually present; I was one of those few. The teacher worked with each child one by one while the others stayed at the edge of the pool. I don;t recall if they were sitting on the side or holding onto it, but in the water. The teacher HAD IS BACK TO THE KIDS while he was working with the one. Needless to say, one of the kids let go, or got in and was over his head. No noise, but plenty of flailing as he went under water and back up and under again and again. Took me about two steps to get to the edge of the pool, another step into the pool, and to grab him and raise him out of the water, coughing. The teacher STILL did not know what had happened! Not until I was back in my seat, dripping wet did he realize that one of his students had nearly drowned. As soon as the lesson was over (no way was I leaving that pool while there were still kids in it), I stormed into the office and demanded that the instructor be fired (they couldn't as he did not work directly for them, but the company with whom they contracted did terminate him). I was absolutely outraged that they would have hired such an incompetant person to begin with.
 
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my daughter almost drowned right next to me in a pool full of people....none further away than a foot.....it is scarey how fast it can happen and how very quietly.....thank God we caught her.....can't be too careful.life jackets are a must !
 
When I was young, before I learned to swim, I very quietly fell into the deep end of a pool and sunk right to the bottom. Thankfully, my aunt saw me sinking and dove in to get me. I still remember watching the surface of the pool getting further away.
 
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We have pool and hot tub, fully fenced and secure. However, we have waterer for the animals, ditches and buckets around that anyone has that are as risky for toddlers. Josh The Otter is a program started near us, they are maybe OOT, but good info.
 
I have a pool.

It has iron-clad rules, because I also have a fear of water.

NO ONE swims alone. Not my wife, not my daughter, not me.
Even though they can both swim, there must be at least one
other person with you at all times.

They both know I would remove their pool in a heartbeat if
they fail to follow the warning.

Daughter had a small pool party one day last week. Just two friends
over, but I played lifeguard. That's my job. My daughter didn't really like
it. But she understands why I do what I do.

I sat on the deck and did nothing. No reading, no paperwork, no laptop.
Not even a nap.

And because I know that accidents can happen to any of us, even when I
clean the pool, my wife or daughter is there.

I don't do preventable accidents. I don't do chance.

And yes, I'm the same dad that won't buy her a four-wheeler. Doesn't stop
her from wanting one. But she does have a golf cart. And she even had a
cheap little Escort car to play with. She learned the basics of driving when she
was ten, driving up and down our driveway. No, the Escort couldn't go in the
woods, and it didn't do jumps. But she can drive a car, a gold cart, a farm tractor.

She can even swim.

She just can't swim alone...
 
Local family buried their 15 month daughter last week.

She drown in the family pool. Preventable accident.



I take my job as her Daddy pretty serious.



Come on...driving on our own land against the law? Farm land.
Who can't drive a tractor? And on the road if need be? Farm life.
I wouldn't trade.
 

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