If she at least paid my final value & listing fees
Ebay frowns on that, too ... you are not supposed to suggest such a thing to a non-payer. You need to file a non-payer dispute after the seven days. If she does not respond, you will get your fees back and she will get a 'strike.' The strikes are now the most important thing, because if a buyer gets enough of them, they are blocked from buying.
Ebay has become very cumbersome in the last few years. It is now tailored to the powersellers and buyers. Small sellers can be pretty much knocked out by one or two negatives, while the occasional negative doesn't impact a large seller much at all. The 'dings' from the 5 questions buyers are to answer can hurt almost as much as a negative. They can give you a positive and then a 3 on shipping time ~~ !! If your average falls below 4.2 (I think.. they've changed it a couple of times), they will RESTRICT where your auction shows up at ... yep, not EVERYBODY will see your auction.
The only thing I DO agree with is the clarification on seller's responsibility in shipping. The rule has always been there, but ebay still allowed folks to 'think' they could pass off responsibility once it left their hands. That has NEVER been the case. And, really, it shouldn't be. Can you imagine buying ANYTHING online, it never shows up, and the seller tells you... too bad??? People could sell stuff all day long and never ship it~~!!! Delivery confirmation will, in most cases, be sufficient proof of delivery to protect you from folks claiming they never got it. There will always be scammers on both sides...do as much checking as possible... read through feedback, see how long they have been selling, stay away from folks who write an ad with too many restrictions.
Ebay frowns on that, too ... you are not supposed to suggest such a thing to a non-payer. You need to file a non-payer dispute after the seven days. If she does not respond, you will get your fees back and she will get a 'strike.' The strikes are now the most important thing, because if a buyer gets enough of them, they are blocked from buying.
Ebay has become very cumbersome in the last few years. It is now tailored to the powersellers and buyers. Small sellers can be pretty much knocked out by one or two negatives, while the occasional negative doesn't impact a large seller much at all. The 'dings' from the 5 questions buyers are to answer can hurt almost as much as a negative. They can give you a positive and then a 3 on shipping time ~~ !! If your average falls below 4.2 (I think.. they've changed it a couple of times), they will RESTRICT where your auction shows up at ... yep, not EVERYBODY will see your auction.
The only thing I DO agree with is the clarification on seller's responsibility in shipping. The rule has always been there, but ebay still allowed folks to 'think' they could pass off responsibility once it left their hands. That has NEVER been the case. And, really, it shouldn't be. Can you imagine buying ANYTHING online, it never shows up, and the seller tells you... too bad??? People could sell stuff all day long and never ship it~~!!! Delivery confirmation will, in most cases, be sufficient proof of delivery to protect you from folks claiming they never got it. There will always be scammers on both sides...do as much checking as possible... read through feedback, see how long they have been selling, stay away from folks who write an ad with too many restrictions.