@kajira i really admire what you do for your kids but all the little ones are a lot of work. Why not send the older ones to school???
As a university professor I would NEVER consider I was capable of giving my kids the breadth of education esp in languages, math and physics that the school could. It would have put the kids at a huge disadvantage when competing with other kids for university /scholarships etc.
I would of course have LOVED to home school them. That would have been so much fun. Compromised with "topping up" what they did at school with on line and fun stuff like music and sport (and chickens etc). I know each to their own and some people don't want their kids minds "polluted" with school - but when they leave home they need to know how to REALLY deal with people who are non-family members.
And although my 2 older girls are at UNI they both call/text me every day -so school did not ruin them.
I love my kids to death but I know they are just "borrowed" and we do our best for them and then they go off and do their own thing with life, but also believe they won't be so sick of us that they will always remain close.
I know that on this thread there are lots of different views, including people who are very anti school and variety is good. Just putting my 2cents out there....