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Well, let me counter with this story, just to put things in perspective. I have owned Toy Fox Terriers for the last 20 years. I love this breed--I can never think of myself without a TFT in the future, even though I don't consider myself a "small dog person." My first experience showing these dogs came in the United Kennel Club, where they were originally registered, competing in the Terrier group. To me, these dogs are all terrier. They are game, highly intelligent, and focused verminators. No one who has owned them can deny that they are *terriers* despite their placement in the Toy group in the American kennel club.
About three months ago, I was at an AKC show. I was exercising one of my dogs outside (properly carrying a waste bag and paper towels, as required), when we crossed paths with a woman and her Smooth Fox Terrier. The TFT and the SFT both did the bounce and rock solid stand, staring each other down, as typical of terriers. There is no aggression in this move--it's called "sparring" in the terrier ring, but it really indicates the alert terrier attitude. The woman with the SFT laughed at the little one sparring with her bigger dog, making the comment that she thought that TFTs were cute, but that she "couldn't get past their prick ears" and that she "preferred
real terriers. I didn't chuckle, replying that my dogs
were real terriers. We chatted for another moment while our dogs went about their business, but the fun of the morning was tarnished for me. That single offhand comment stung, perhaps in a way that she did not intend for it to sting. But it bothers me even now, clearly, since I can remember the encounter so vividly.
In just a single second, my dog was not only found wanting, it was dismissed entirely. This little dog was one of my "bred by" dogs, of which I am inordinately proud. She, Holly, has every ounce of terrier spirit and energy that any SFT, JRT, WFT, APBT, SBT, ST, or any other terrier might have, plus she is gorgeous to boot. I value her highly, as a pet, as a show dog, and as a producer of my future champions. She remains untarnished in my eyes, simply because I am confident in her value. However, what if I'd been a new exhibitor? What if my pride in my beautiful little dog had been diminished just because of some unthinking words spoken by a person that I had never met before and would never meet again? We, as human beings, need to be more aware of how our words affect other people. In my opinion, this world suffers from a lack of courtesy, courtesy that could be easily managed just by finding a single kind thing to say or even by keeping one's opinions to oneself.
Edited to add pictures of Holly
With one of her puppies (Aug. 2008)
Posing as a jewelry model for a crafter that I know
With her ribbon and prize from winning Group 4, Bred by Exhibitor
Plotting her escape