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Okay, I've been avoiding this for a while. Update time.
Things had started looking better, which of course meant that they were going to get worse again. Much worse.
I didn't want to say anything so as not to jinx it, but the universe found out anyhow.
I had been working with the owner of the property, arranging to get the lease put in my name after the final Landlord and Tenant Board hearing. Everything was in place, I had been paying the rent for the last three months, and then my daughter crept out of the woodwork.
This was/is a rent-to-own, and suddenly she decides she wants the place after all. After having pretty much abandoned it at the end of October '24. She made a deal with them, without telling me, to pay back the $8200 she owed by the end of August, and then the collateral she had put into the lease would be returned to her and she could buy the house.
Then she came back here two weeks ago. Her piece of
boyfriend convinced her that I had been trying to steal the place for myself and turned her AND my grandson against me.
I had been cleaning up as best I could, throwing anything out that was garbage (broken stuff, stuff that got pissed on by cats, actual garbage), and let me tell you it was disgusting. My son and my friend came over a few times to help, and they were also grossed out. Anyhow, her piece of boyfriend (who was the cause of her mental breakdown that led to her leaving here in the first place) now convinced her that this was PROOF that I was out to sabotage her. I would receive daily texts from him, one minute trying to reconcile with me, the next screaming at me. It was to the point where I was terrified of leaving the trailer. He would pull these petty revenge things on me, like yanking all my tomato plants out and throwing them to the side, or taking boards I was using to protect the chickens.
About a week after they got here, he goes on this massive abusive rant at me because the stuff we had thrown out and was in the garbage pile had been found. This culminated in him saying he was calling the police.
Cops got here and he wasn't answering the door. I went out and spoke to them, gave them the background of the situation as well as my version of what happened. When a$$hole finally got to the door, cops went in and talked to them, then when they returned to me told me they said to him that he was jumping at conclusions and didn't bother getting the actual facts straight. They also told him to stay away from me.
About ten minutes later, my daughter got into a HUGE screaming match with him (assuming he never told her he'd called the cops), and I swear I heard threats being made. *I* called the cops back, as I was so scared that he would do something to my daughter.
He got a talking to from the police officers, but they couldn't arrest him for anything.
Needless to say, I was very *very* stressed for a while after that. But d*ckh**d stayed away from me. I've relaxed now, mostly, but am desperately looking for a new place to live again. Even if they manage to raise that money, there's no way I can stay here anymore.
Most of my remaining animals have been sold. Only ones remaining are chicks and my two house chickens, and some of the rabbits. I am NOT getting rid of all my rabbits! I'm switching to mostly purebred Rex for the time being.
So, looking for somewhere where I can bring my rabbits, as well as my dog and three cats. I'll sneak in the two house chickens. But everything is too expensive...
Things had started looking better, which of course meant that they were going to get worse again. Much worse.
I didn't want to say anything so as not to jinx it, but the universe found out anyhow.
I had been working with the owner of the property, arranging to get the lease put in my name after the final Landlord and Tenant Board hearing. Everything was in place, I had been paying the rent for the last three months, and then my daughter crept out of the woodwork.
This was/is a rent-to-own, and suddenly she decides she wants the place after all. After having pretty much abandoned it at the end of October '24. She made a deal with them, without telling me, to pay back the $8200 she owed by the end of August, and then the collateral she had put into the lease would be returned to her and she could buy the house.
Then she came back here two weeks ago. Her piece of
boyfriend convinced her that I had been trying to steal the place for myself and turned her AND my grandson against me. I had been cleaning up as best I could, throwing anything out that was garbage (broken stuff, stuff that got pissed on by cats, actual garbage), and let me tell you it was disgusting. My son and my friend came over a few times to help, and they were also grossed out. Anyhow, her piece of
boyfriend (who was the cause of her mental breakdown that led to her leaving here in the first place) now convinced her that this was PROOF that I was out to sabotage her. I would receive daily texts from him, one minute trying to reconcile with me, the next screaming at me. It was to the point where I was terrified of leaving the trailer. He would pull these petty revenge things on me, like yanking all my tomato plants out and throwing them to the side, or taking boards I was using to protect the chickens.About a week after they got here, he goes on this massive abusive rant at me because the stuff we had thrown out and was in the garbage pile had been found. This culminated in him saying he was calling the police.
Cops got here and he wasn't answering the door. I went out and spoke to them, gave them the background of the situation as well as my version of what happened. When a$$hole finally got to the door, cops went in and talked to them, then when they returned to me told me they said to him that he was jumping at conclusions and didn't bother getting the actual facts straight. They also told him to stay away from me.
About ten minutes later, my daughter got into a HUGE screaming match with him (assuming he never told her he'd called the cops), and I swear I heard threats being made. *I* called the cops back, as I was so scared that he would do something to my daughter.
He got a talking to from the police officers, but they couldn't arrest him for anything.
Needless to say, I was very *very* stressed for a while after that. But d*ckh**d stayed away from me. I've relaxed now, mostly, but am desperately looking for a new place to live again. Even if they manage to raise that money, there's no way I can stay here anymore.
Most of my remaining animals have been sold. Only ones remaining are chicks and my two house chickens, and some of the rabbits. I am NOT getting rid of all my rabbits! I'm switching to mostly purebred Rex for the time being.
So, looking for somewhere where I can bring my rabbits, as well as my dog and three cats. I'll sneak in the two house chickens. But everything is too expensive...
But I do think it's time to pull away from your daughter and her crazed boyfriend. 
Judging from all you have said about both of them, no doubt they will still default and lose the house anyway at some point. Have you spoken to any government agencies that might help you get into any low income housing? Do you have this sort of thing there? 
