WoW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There is no frigging way I would have sat there and stood for that, I am very opinionated and while it might have hurt a ton to hear my hubby say those things to me, I would have likely given him a tongue lashing, amongst other things, that he would have never forgotten for the rest of his life.
With that said, I have seen posts from you, I believe back in the summer where you were looking for an opinion on a dress....You honey are not that heavy, and in fact I thought you looked great in those dresses, some more than others and I remember thinking that your confidence was admirable. It does not matter WHO it is that might say those things to you, don't let them break your spirit. Remember, you are a strong and beautiful woman. If he is gonna go about calling the kettle black, throwing stones at glass houses etc...well its time for you to show him all his faults, bottom line. My husband would never say that to me, and if he ever even thought of it he would find himself sleeping out int he three feet of snow we have outside.
Not one person on this earth deserves to be disrespected in such a manner.
I am not about to go around throwing solutions for you, but I hope you go and put him in his place, My SIL is a heavy girl, but her dh is about 350 to 380lbs and after the birth of their first child, while we were visiting, I remember him saying to her how she had gotten CHUNKIER (his words) I remember the look on her face, and I thought for sure true to her easy nature she would say nothing and then quietly cry about it in her room when she was alone, but she sure surprised all of us by throwing a full scoopful of mashed potatoes at his head and telling him how fine of a subject he was to talk as he had to lift his stomach to pee or how he couldn't do his husbandly duties unless she lifted her stomach for him. Bottom his jaw dropped her brother, My dh wanted to deck him, but after the initial shock he laughed hysterically, Dinner was awkward to say the least. But a few days later she came over to see us and told us how he had bought her flowers and chocolates, and apologized by taking her out to dinner, something he had not done for her in over 5 years. He has never disrespected her like that again.
Ema
There is no frigging way I would have sat there and stood for that, I am very opinionated and while it might have hurt a ton to hear my hubby say those things to me, I would have likely given him a tongue lashing, amongst other things, that he would have never forgotten for the rest of his life.
With that said, I have seen posts from you, I believe back in the summer where you were looking for an opinion on a dress....You honey are not that heavy, and in fact I thought you looked great in those dresses, some more than others and I remember thinking that your confidence was admirable. It does not matter WHO it is that might say those things to you, don't let them break your spirit. Remember, you are a strong and beautiful woman. If he is gonna go about calling the kettle black, throwing stones at glass houses etc...well its time for you to show him all his faults, bottom line. My husband would never say that to me, and if he ever even thought of it he would find himself sleeping out int he three feet of snow we have outside.
Not one person on this earth deserves to be disrespected in such a manner.
I am not about to go around throwing solutions for you, but I hope you go and put him in his place, My SIL is a heavy girl, but her dh is about 350 to 380lbs and after the birth of their first child, while we were visiting, I remember him saying to her how she had gotten CHUNKIER (his words) I remember the look on her face, and I thought for sure true to her easy nature she would say nothing and then quietly cry about it in her room when she was alone, but she sure surprised all of us by throwing a full scoopful of mashed potatoes at his head and telling him how fine of a subject he was to talk as he had to lift his stomach to pee or how he couldn't do his husbandly duties unless she lifted her stomach for him. Bottom his jaw dropped her brother, My dh wanted to deck him, but after the initial shock he laughed hysterically, Dinner was awkward to say the least. But a few days later she came over to see us and told us how he had bought her flowers and chocolates, and apologized by taking her out to dinner, something he had not done for her in over 5 years. He has never disrespected her like that again.
Ema
