OK now see, I soent the first 5 years of my life in a small town, then lived in the country on a farm till I was 13, then lived in a bigger city till I was 21, and now live in po-dunk again.  So, I understand the friendly/nosey neighbor bit, waving at everyone who drives by, stopping in unannounced, all that.  But after spending 8 years in a rough Wyoming town, I know I come across to these rural MN folk as rude, because I do have a lot of the "i take care of mine and you take care of yours" survival habits that come from living in a place like that.  I dont make eye contact with strangers, I dont drive by the neighbors place slowly to check out the lawn, where I am from being "friendly/nosey" is an invitation to get shot!  But, I also wouldnt leave half my yard for the neighbor to mow, get help from them and not return the favor, or ask for anything without paying or trading.  THere is a line between the city mentality and selfishness and it sounds to me like you have a bunch of selfish shelfish hanging around!
	
		
			
		
		
	
				
			 
	 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		
 
 
		
 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		 
 
		