hi all.
I'm going to chime in here with the near certainty of not making a whole lotta sense. Sigh. Oh, well.
Due to being out of work (I guess I 'joined a club' without even applying!) I rented out the biggest bedroom in my house. My tenant was here for 18 months. AFTER she left I discovered damage to the room-size rug in her room. Now... I hadn't charged her any damage or cleaning deposit, my bad. Besides she was already gone.
I was reading the room for re-renting and found a melted area on the rug precisely in the shape of an iron. A HOT iron. It was not discolored, just deeply melted. I hadn't noticed it for over a week after she left but, once you know it's there, it cannot escape your notice.
So. I sent a polite notice to her new address requesting reimbursement, specifying exactly how much it'd cost ($134.00), and reminding her I'd only bought it the week befor she'd moved in. No response.
6 weeks later I printed out the sales receipt from the rug purchase, the first notice, and a politely worded second notice. I sent identical sets to both home and work addresses, CERTIFIED. At the end I said "I know you are very busy but please don't make me send a third notice." She came to my house the day after she received the letter and paid me. (she had her Mad Face on but I don't care)
I kept at it, although my inclination was to just live with it and chalk it up to experience, because I KNEW she had KNOWN she damaged the rug. I don't think she could pick up a hot iron off of a rug and ever iron with it again - without a major cleaning. She must have known and she decided in my behalf that it was no big deal. Well, it was a big deal to me. I rented her the best bedroom in my house, treated her like family, and that rug was one of the very, very few NEW things I have ever bought. It was nice. It was mine. Now - it's not so nice.
I did not say so in my notices, I wanted to keep it all 'low key', but my next step was to file in small claims court - and I would have rolled the rug up and taken it and the sales receipt in.
So, back to the chickens. Decide on what you have to have to repair some of the damage and get on with it all. You said you don't think they'll pay? Maybe not. Maybe yes. But bill them, there is nothing wrong with that. You've gotten lots of good advice, I know it made me stop and think about my girls. Money can't replace them but they clearly have a value.
hugs, Donna