HighStreetCoop---I would explain to the company you are a first time buyer, and have had to take 2 days off of work due to the snafu....and 2 day mail isn't exactly express....I would see if they would mind refunding maybe half of shipping. If you do it nicely, they might just refund part of it. I have taken that route with other things before with good success....and sometimes not so good success.