I had an "incident" on Facebook this year, on the anniversary of 9/11. People were posting various patriotic posts, etc. I had posted a video of an American Firefighter who was a first responder at ground zero and who also happens to be Muslim.
The video is here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mU5W-iUv8fg
Anyway, I posted it on Facebook and was absolutely shocked when a friend, my former neighbor from my old town, posted a bunch of very Anti-Muslim remarks, saying that ALL Muslims support terrorism in one way or another, etc.
What he didn't know is that my fathers' wife is Indonesian, and while she herself is Christian, MANY of her immediate family members, MY family members now, are Muslim. They were holding a 9/11 event that very night with proceeds going to families of the 9/11 attacks. These Muslims were holding an event for 9/11, while my "friend" was sitting at home on his computer, verbally attacking Muslims on my Facebook page. Many of my Muslim family members are Facebook friends and could see all of this by the way.
It never occurred to him, talking to me, white Laura and clearly not Muslim, how offensive it was. Even if I did not have Muslim family members, I would have been appalled, but knowing my own family could see his words made it so much worse. I had a short debate with him on my wall, and then when I announced that half my family are Muslim and could see all his posts, he shut up real quick and never said another word about it.
It was very hurtful. I hope that many of my Muslim family members who saw it were like KristyHalls' friend, just knew it was ignorant and had a good laugh, although many of them probably didn't see it because THEY, unlike my ignorant friend, were raising money for 9/11 families that night. But it hurt me. People are so quick to judge.
But good for your friend, Kristy, to be able to laugh it off like that knowing it's pure ignorance and not worth being upset at.