I too vote for baby wearing and utilizing nap times. I used the Ergo baby carrier and my 2 year old still fits in it. It was a little pricey but well worth the money. I tried a sling style carrier from Target, but my DD looked so uncomfortable in it and it was not comfortable for my back. The ergo really feels comfortable, although the baby isn't too sold with a lot of bending over or standing still...gotta keep moving to keep her happy.
Good luck and just like my dad says, a little crying is just fine for them. Remember that you need time for yourself too!
Good luck and just like my dad says, a little crying is just fine for them. Remember that you need time for yourself too!