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I have a few stories. I will throw one on here every now and then
I have a few stories. I will throw one on here every now and then
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I've never felt more country. I have never lived more than 20 miles from the hospital where I was born, and the farthest I have traveled is to the west coast (San Diego) with my parents as a teen.
On the other hand, everywhere I go, locally, I either know somebody, or meet people who know my family. I have never failed to find someone to talk "family" with at any event, gathering, or even in line at checkout. Did I mention that the population in this area is over 198,000?
Even casual family gatherings can enjoy attendance of 40 or 50 people......
I, for one can say, I somewhat envy the folks that seem to know everybody. Whenever we have something going on, I have to bring the kids with me. I know absolutely NO ONE. I'm pretty reclusive.
My little one has been in the hospital with us a bit too much, he's been to court with us, parent-teacher meetings, dinner... he goes everywhere. We were those horrible people with a baby in nice restaurants (lucky us, he is a happy boy). Oh, those folks that know everyone... always a helping hand, always knowing who to call. Really, it all has it's benefits. I often feel like an odd duck around here, at school parents talk about people they all know and I just stand there. I barely know my neighbors, although one said she loves chickens.
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YOu know I have lived in the city most of my live and what YOu describe is Me... I have always only barely known my neighbors. Always been the quiet one that doesnt know any one. Even right now We know the neighbors by name.... have a conversation... but no one invites us over or us them....
Though when I bought my place out in the middle of NOwhere I thought to give it a try to meet and know my neighbors. The one road to and fro for the area I live in serves probably about twenty homes each on over twenty acres. My strategy was to roll down the window in the car as I passed someone I didnt recognize.... and smile. Which always prompts the other person to stop and see if your lost. Then I ask it.... "Are you my neighbor? " They always say "I dont know..." with suspicion in their voice. Then I babble on about how I had just move up there the wheres and whatfors and how much I loved it.... By the end of the conversation I knew more about them and their personalities.... Some were cordial but not too friendly... By the end of the year I had met everyone pretty much. One neighbor told me with a laugh that hed lived there thirty years now and I knew more about the people around him than he did.
Still no one comes to visit I wouldnt recongize them in the grocery store.... But they would recognize me in an emergency and it paid off when a big fire moved through the next valley.
deb
all these scary women.
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oz I am a 16 year old girl with pink hair and a gold leafed 2000$ semi auto shot gun but I tell you as soon as I pull out my purple .22 the boys at the gun club know better and go back to moping around. I am a gun princess