General Update:
Okay things are going better with the kids. The boy is up and acting like a goat! I am not hearing him cry and he is more like his sister now- less falling over and more energy in between naps. Hooray!
He is taking the bottle with enthusiasm, and guzzles a bit then stops on his own and seems to wait and see how that feels. Then he has a bit more, and will stop on his own before he has a whole lot. So far he seems to be able to regulate his intake on his own. I probably need to start tracking the amount and measuring it for down the road.
The doeling looks like her sides are sunken in a bit, so I have tried to just get a mouthful of bottle milk in her a little bit. I don't think she needs it much since she must be getting at least a little from mom, but I'd like her to be at least familiar with the idea.
That brings me to the less happy news. Mom goat's milk is still M.I.A. Her udder has not swelled and I don't know if it ever will come in.
I'm also concerned with the amount she is (not) eating. She eats her grains with the usual gusto, but she is not eating hay really at all. I've offered alfalfa and she is mostly ignoring it. She is also ignoring her minerals which is a change for her too. Shouldn't she be hungry and eating lots to make milk?
Should I give mom vitamin B to stimulate her appetite?
I fear she may have no future as a dairy goat. Which really ruins my plans.

so long all the soap and cheese and milk and *sigh*
On the bright side, she is attentive in an affectionate way to her kids, and if she was producing milk I think she would figure out to be an excellent mother now that everything isn't so surprising at first.
I'm not sure what will happen next.
Maybe her milk will come in? Maybe?
The store my husband got the nice whole milk from also sells goat milk that is low temp pasteurized to preserve the enzymes. I guess that's as close to raw as you can legally sell here. The product is reserved in advance which is why he couldn't buy any last night, but it's great to know that is available for the future if needed.