I am so sorry for your loss, and baby boy's too! I like to cuddle mine, talk to them etc. I can see a mirror working, and wee wee wee-ing to him. I found a stuffed animal at goodwill, with not button eyes or any other loose things. Just wash it, and remove that stuff that a baby could pick off.
I am so lucky that Bonnie allows me to reach under her. I only peeked this morning but no candling.
Now for my good news, I had to help the duckling as there was no progress since last night. The duckling was fine, and the shell was already separated. I put it back in with the chicken to finish the hatch, but it sounded like it was getting trampled. So, I pulled it out again and it was almost completely done. So I let the hatch end in my hand, and I am happy to report a healthy Cayuga colored mutt duckling is warming up on my chest!
I am hoping it is a boy.