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You got it in one. Your daughter is lucky to have you around to remind her. And her neighbors are lucky!
We homeschool also - and I actually wonder if that is a part of this woman's beef. She hasn't said anything about it, but she moved into the neighborhood a couple years before us, when it was almost solely the older folks who moved in as young families when the subdivision was being built... 45 years ago. In the last 6-8 years (we have been here ~6, she was sweet for the first 4... pre-chickens) there has been a massive generational turnover and the neighborhood is filled with kids. Great for our kids, but I can see how it could be upsetting to someone who thought she was moving into a quiet area. Kids are noisy (far more than chickens!) and messy (despite parents' best efforts... though I must admit it didn't seem like a big deal to leave their toys around our backyard!). Our kids are home all day long, on top of that - although I make every effort to be quieter during "school hours" and my kids are hands-down the most polite in the neighborhood (they know not to hold down a doorbell forever, always greet adults with a smile, etc.)... the other kids are great, but I am aware that we have to hold a higher standard in order to keep the neighbors friendly.
I think this woman would like to be the "Nice Old Lady" but doesn't *really* like kids.
It's a great neighborhood in many ways... but I am so ready to be done with neighbors. After the CPS visit I was afraid to let the kids play out front for close to a year! And it turns out it was the backyard I needed to be paranoid over...
Sigh.
Bless you for being a good grandma to your daughter's neighborhood. They may never know it, but please accept my thanks on their behalf. She sounds like a nice person... we all get a little silly and it's a question of whether we, or someone near us, can bring us back before we act. (That's usually my husband's role in our family... but he was peeved this time... it's been interesting...)
Kerridwen
Sounds like your pesky neighbor needs a hobby! If I were in your shoes I'd be going over there to have a little chat with her upon giving her gifts of knitting supplies or something. Ask her why is she making big deals out of nothing? My neighbors and I have an understanding here, if they should have a problem with the birds in any way, we resolve the problem immediately without the authorities being called. IE: the back yard wasn't fenced in much, just at the very back and half way up one side so one of my big roosters at the time saw it fit to go hang out in the neighbors garage, on top of his fancy monte carlo.... The neighbor came to us right away, the next day we put a chicken wire fence up and solved that issue. At one time we had to many roosters and one in particular was a real noise maker, neighbor had come to us asking us what we can do about that noisey rooster, I told him not a problem he would be gone tomorrow and he was. Perhaps having a civil conversation with this woman would help clear the air?