Sounds miserable.
I had all six in diapers at one time. Bob did not deal with diapers. She would get mad as she would try to only use the potty and would have accidents. Once. she had the surgery to remove the kidney and to fix a few other issues, she did fine.
I love my kids. They drive me insane and there are days I want to run away, but each of them brings me a special joy.