Granny, my pet peeve is (and I wonder if Robert does this-is it something people with autism do?)
In my kitchen, DH constantly organizes things, takes things out of containers and puts them in smaller containers, lines then up neatly, yet his shop and room is in total disarray.
On trash day, the partly full bag has got to go out. He will throw away the boxes for the aluminum foil, plastic wrap (I need the box to tear it) my cereal boxes (cereal to if the trash bag isn't full and he thinks I haven't touched it in a couple days). My dish rags go too .. it's not to be mean-I can tell. He simply doesn't think what he's doing.
I've learned to bite my tongue, it's a wonder I have a tongue left!