grannys gone and done it

[Granny Hatchet]

He has taken CB under his wing. Its remarkable. CB was wrestling with him and I made them stop. Then when wishing mentioned stranger danger I brought that up as an example that I didnt feel it was right. CB said, nana, you know he never grew up. we are the same age. I will always love him though and when I am grown I will still look out for him. I was shocked. Wasnt expecting that and felt bad about saying that but I was trying to say, (and its true) family will sometimes be the worst offenders . I know Robert was just wrestling but I just didnt think it appropriate because he had CB down .

Have I shocked ? every bit of that stems from being abused. and DD was almost ? abused as well. It taught me . Never trust anyone. No matter who it is. .

 

[twisted-acres-farm]

sorry all I keep having little nap attacks. so I shall wish/send you all Sweet Dreams Warm Fuzzies and Prayers.

enjoy the rest of your evening and I will catch you all in the am.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

That's pretty remarkable! Last year, when CB started sleeping over and trying to come without his brothers, I had it in my head that he may be the one who can help your family the most. He's still got a lot of growing to do, but sounds like his head and his heart are both in the right place. To understand and accept responsibility for Robert... takes a special person to even think like that.

Does CB have a birth certificate? You can make is future a lot easier making sure all that kind of stuff (SS# too) is in place before he turns 18.

I cant get anything from his parents.

 

[Wishing4Wings]

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No. It's good to be aware of boundaries and the fact that people you should be able to trust sometimes cross those boundaries. Although, at some point, it might be good to trust someone who has earned it.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

sorry all I keep having little nap attacks. so I shall wish/send you all Sweet Dreams Warm Fuzzies and Prayers.

enjoy the rest of your evening and I will catch you all in the am.

night Twist. sleep well, warm fuzzies and prayers.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

No. It's good to be aware of boundaries and the fact that people you should be able to trust sometimes cross those boundaries. Although, at some point, it might be good to trust someone who has earned it.

I trust tom but I didnt always. only because he is feeble now. I spent many years alone after DD had a very close call. I swore that would never happen again and it didnt. I know this because I became over protective. If there is such a thing.

 

[Wishing4Wings]

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What's the deal with that? Do they even have the paper work? Must have something, because you have to show it to register the kids in school. Whatever county he was born in will be able to send a copy, but you might have to be a parent. The eldest brother should be able to request his. He will be stuck and limited without it. I think about him a lot. He made his escape. Wonder how he is doing?

 

[Granny Hatchet]

What's the deal with that? Do they even have the paper work? Must have something, because you have to show it to register the kids in school. Whatever county he was born in will be able to send a copy, but you might have to be a parent. The eldest brother should be able to request his. He will be stuck and limited without it. I think about him a lot. He made his escape. Wonder how he is doing?

he cant get his because the parents dont have ID. DD has now "lost" her DL and didnt pass the driving test here. They know his SS# so do I . Just no card. I dont think they have any BC. everything has been lost. Kris is doing good . Talked to him couple days ago. working, school and paying his bills. He wants to marry this girl next year. He isnt 18 yet but has a ton of responsibility.

 

[Wishing4Wings]

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That's good to hear. Since he is an emancipated minor, he should be able to request his own birth certificate. Can he get married without one? For sure he can do it when he turns 18. I had to send for one of the boy's and it was maybe a little too easy. I could have been anyone, but they sent it anyway. Hope if he gets married, they wait on having kids. Let him grow up and not be one before he has one. Not the end of the world, obviously, but makes life easier. Does he get along with Robert and CB?

 

[Granny Hatchet]

Kinda dont want this day to end. Its been a good one. Hope I wake to the same. I think tv guy comes tomorrow and I hope its not at 8am. LOL I am going to slip off though. Rest well Lynda.