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Tell her! Let her see him without a shirt. She needs to know his true behavior. Don't shield either of them. You don't want her thinking he's more capable than he really is.
My #1 was like that... we had to prepare him mentally ahead of time for anything that was out of the regular routine. He handles things better ow, but still doesn't like surprises. We were talking about a career with FBI/CIA doing analysis work. He just said he could never be a field agent... too many uncontrolled variables. At least he understands that about himself. Same reason why he hates driving. But he does it... grudgingly.
Edit... testing how to do something...
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I wonder if thats what it really was or he is looking for body image approval. I did say something to her about not calling a day in advance. She was a little rude by saying well, I forgot. Most people dont care but you have the option to reschedule so I asked her when her baby was due.