grannys gone and done it

[Tumbling K]

It sounds totally nice, polite, and benign.

Where is our granny and what have you done to her?!?

 

[campingshaws]

I watched The Avengers and then Man of Steel last night before bed. I hadn't seen either of them before. I woke up several times in the night. :/

 

[Tumbling K]

Lol

Camping, I'm sure you posted, but how was your holiday?

 

[campingshaws]

Lol

Camping, I'm sure you posted, but how was your holiday?

Fine, overall. Dad ambushed DH when they were Black Friday shopping. Accused him of sleeping around, complained that some money they gave us five years ago (we didn't need or ask for) set them behind on bills for six months. You know, the usual.

 

[Tumbling K]

ummm......can I "lol"?

sorry gal, holidays bring out the best and worst in folks.......

 

[Granny Hatchet]

bert, shes in hiding for a bit.
camping !!!

so sorry. I hope dh told him off ! seems like thats what they are looking for.

Dh shouldnt even tell you about that, just handle it . way to ruin a holiday. unsolicited advise , sorry.

 

[Granny Hatchet]

I seen LIsa s new niece this am.

 

[campingshaws]

bert, shes in hiding for a bit.
camping !!!   so sorry. I hope dh told him off ! seems like thats what they are looking for.   Dh shouldnt even tell you about that, just handle it .  way to ruin a holiday.  unsolicited advise , sorry. 

I'm not sure how DH handled it. He's pretty tight-lipped about most things. He gets upet that I don't handle things myself, but I guess I'm just used to it? I tend to just ignore and avoid. Around here I've been known to bring the heat when folks are acting ugly. I'm the big guns. But with my parents I just totally shut down.

I've begun an internal process of walking through what it would be like to cut them from our lives. Ten years has been a long time to deal with the nonsense... We found out recently that they were convinced I only married DH because I was pregnant, which I wasn't. Nothing he has done or can do will ever make them change their opinions of him.

 

[twisted-acres-farm]

Good Morning all. Caught up

Granny no I wasn't upset or anything just worried and tired. Still no new boiler big day maybe Tues.

You were right Missallette is 8 or will be this spring. I forget LOL

 

[Granny Hatchet]

its normal to not speak up to your parents. its called respect. and Im sure thats how you were raised. please remember, its the only mom you have. no matter how they are or how you are treated. I actually agree with you about avoidance with the "discussions" . I hope things get better for you