grannys gone and done it

[Wishing4Wings]

Took a long drive out into the forest today.. stopping to stand in the rain and look at hood canal and the fog linger from the top of a mountain. I think its needless to say that we are feeling a little empty inside. Spent most of the morning out of cell phone service and drove to find a million messages from my family. Joey has caused unnecessary drama and has brought my parents into this, nonissue.... Devin is over there now picking him up but never in a million years would I have thought one of my own would bring me such havoc.... I recieved a text message from his girlfriend today saying that her grandpa can take joey for a few days so that me and devin have time to think about stuff... I dont know where they think they are living but this is not a soap opera and I have no time for foolery especially since there are important things in life to worry about. I love my son, but I am having a very difficult time liking him right now.

And as far as Lisa goes.... I know how she is feeling cause I think many of us have been there before. I will do everything in my power to make her feel loved and to let her know that I am willing to fight for a friendship I held dearly.... I dont believe anyone intentionally hurt her.. but she is hurting.

So I guess I will get off my soap box... I might run to a bar tonight, just to get away for a bit.. undecided.. I love each each and everyone of you and I hope you all know that I say that truely.

Granny, chin up. Everyone else chin up as well and hatch some babies.

14 years and they think they have all the answers! They don't. Not a clue. Hopefully the adults are all on the same page and can give the boy a little tough love. Good luck. If you want to talk to another mommy of teenage boys and a former teacher, I am a pm away.

 

[Wishing4Wings]

Granny must have meant what she said and went to sleep...

I don't think she slept much. Up messing with the incubator in the wee hours.

 

[lindalouly]

  14 years and they think they have all the answers!  They don't.  Not a clue.  Hopefully the adults are all on the same page and can give the boy a little tough love.  Good luck.  If you want to talk to another mommy of teenage boys and a former teacher, I am a pm away. 

My mom opted to keep him so that my dad could chat with him... Not what I wanted but it is what it is at this point.

 

[Wishing4Wings]

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Grandpa chats can be really good because they have the experience and the love, but the emotion and the responsibility are one generation removed, so clear and calm thinking are easier. Hope his message is the same as yours.


Got to go hang out the laundry...

 

[lindalouly]

Grandpa chats can be really good because they have the experience and the love, but the emotion and the responsibility are one generation removed, so clear and calm thinking are easier.  Hope his message is the same as yours. 

I trust my folks. I just didn't want them to have the stress.

 

[rIrs roost]

Wow! You must be fighting off super mice! Megan and moved into a trailer right after she came to live with me after my divorce. The trailer had not been lived in for about 10 years, so you know how decrepit it was. We moved in in the fall. The mice moved in right after we did. The invasion was so bad that I didn't have to feed my Australian shepherd for a month, she was catching them and eating them. The only way to keep them out of the food was to keep ALL food in the refrigerator. I trapped and trapped and trapped! Then suddenly they just stopped!

Then spring came, the commercial chicken house behind us cleaned out the hens...... this time we were invaded by rats...... a THAT was s nightmare!

I hate rats.

Well my eggs we're set at five this evening. I think everything looks good. 100 degrees and 30to 33 percent humidity. That sound ok for a still air bator?

 

[Granny Hatchet]

sounds right to meee....... Hi all, Yes, I ate and slept the day away..

 

[lindalouly]

I hate rats.

Well my eggs we're set at five this evening. I think everything looks good. 100 degrees and 30to 33 percent humidity. That sound ok for a still air bator?

Yes! Don't forget to turn your eggs!!!!

 

[lindalouly]

sounds right to meee.......  Hi all, Yes, I ate and slept the day away..

Hi granny. Kisses and a big bear hug

 

[willzpapa]

I trust my folks. I just didn't want them to have the stress.

STRESS if they are like my mom they gonna spoil him and send him home ,and say paybacks are tough lol