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I know, even people who keep their homes super clean with pets inside...when I can go in there and smell the 'pet odor' everytime.
My DH would have a holy cow if I brought an animal inside our home and he would most likey kick it like a football out the front door...and he has done that before...
A man that has issues like this doesn't always mean he is a control freak.....My dh has lots of issues with animals and me but in no way is my DH controlling. Your husband has concerns and feelings too and they should be respected as yours should be. That is why you should both have lots of communications and then MORE communications on finding a solution. Anyone telling you to kick him to the curb is not giving you good advice IMO and not trying to actually HELP your situation. He has issues so try and help him deal with it. Don't be demanding or have the 'show you the door' attitude with him...that is not the way to solve a problem in a marriage. Maybe that is why the divorce rate is so high...people aren't willing to 'give' to their partners feelings and think they are just being mean, don't love you, etc.....
The man deserves to live comfortably as you do and I don't think you should have to get rid of your dogs but putting them outside would be a big plus.
Some men deal with things differntly than others. Find a way to help him through this and find a way to get him to compramise with you. I know it seems you are having the short end of the stick here but if you value your marriage at all you will go above and beyond what is required to keep a happy marriage.
..and I am not saying find a way to make JUST him happy...you have to find a way to keep you BOTH happy =-)
...and I bet putting those dogs OUTSIDE will help tremendously!!!!! And yes you can put them outside. I have a tiny dog that lives outside. You could fix them up a run, a house, and a nice cozy spot outside...and still bring them in to love on but let them live outside.
Ouchie! He kicked an animal like a football?..
That upsets me
very much. Sorry.
Is he always that violent when something happens he dosent like? Please be careful...
No, he is one of the sweetest men I know. Very loving sweet man but when he has had enough, he has had enough. He asked me not to bring the animal inside several times. I kept doing it, then he told me not to ever bring her back in the house. I did again, so he opens the door and kicked her out with his foot. It was in no violent act like you are assuming....he didn't kick her as hard as he could've. He made his point and I then realized he was very upset about me keeping on bringing the animal in....never did it again either.