I live in a country where it's very very hard to get a gun, and it makes me feel safe.
But I'm not going to explain myself, simply because I've experienced that people who are pro gun are not interested in discussions about it.
I visited the USA in 2009, and had some americans ask me for my honest opinion, so they could tell me that if I don't own a gun, I can't protect my family like I'm supposed to. Kinda rude.
That is one of my pet peeves. People ask you for your honest opinion and then just upset. If you don't want to know then don't ask. lol. I am sorry you have had that experience with Americans.