Thank you all so much for being so welcoming and helpful! And thank you NorthFLchick for the link! I was so relieved when I found BYC. Being a compulsive info gatherer, having a complete lack of patience and control freak (hence all the questions about one little duckie's bill that really doesn't make a diff in the end...) it's a HUGE COMFORT to know I have such a vast resource of experts. We DO love our new babies, and frankly, how could you not?! Lol. As far as Tater being a girl or boy, patience, Grasshopper! As the muggles say, "The truth will out! Yes?"