I almost need to go the BYC forum in secret, when my husband is not looking. He has said a few times lately "your always on there!!" He is not quite sharing in my facination....yet. He does like having chickens. I have been lavishing him with praise while he is helping with the coop and such ("your so talented and strong...") This makes it a positive experience for him, hopefully making the next time I need his help more of a surething.