Thanks for everyone helping to solve this mystery! we sprayed her down with some mite spray today and it seems to be helping a little bit but we don't see mites. This pic is what we are keeping her in.
@GhogKilla starting a new thread on the same issue may get new opinions from other members, but it sure leaves the original helpers hanging. I would never have seen the new post if Pyxis hadn't linked it.
Sorry! I was so freaked out when asking for help I didnt even know where I was posting! I think I have it down now. LuLu is healing from mites and the wound she got from her scratching! Thanks for your interest!