- Jan 5, 2009
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here's my problem
i work 60 plus hours a week 12 hour night shifts and make good money , now at only the last 2 months, hubby does not work fighting for disabitly(spelling?) for 3 years on his back and legs , he can move around pretty good some days are better
With that little bit of background here the problem
He Does Not have do any thing with me no hugs kisses etc unless i beg (And Just for the ones that say cheating nope i wish it was that easy) And he not brought any money in the last 3 1/2 years
He talks to ever one else , does thing with others
i have tried any thing i can think of to make things better,
talk ,leave him alone i am just about ready to leave we do have 2 little girls and that is why i am still tring to work this out
now every thing that happen is my fault ,and if i leave it will be blamed on me
i know his family wants my 2 kids so here lays yet a other problem if i leave
if i leave and sell all chickens ducks and dogs way over 100 chickens and ducks we do up for winter meat
he would have place to stay and my kids would stay in the home that they live in now and he would not be living with his parents so the kids would be ok and his family would not be there all the time
or if i stay here then he goes to his parents and the kids stay nights and morning till i could get them and who know what would go on .
i am only 28 and lost on what to do
i have prayed and i feeling that i should stay put a little longer but my heart is hurting and my head lets go!! and deal with crap that hits fan later
i work 60 plus hours a week 12 hour night shifts and make good money , now at only the last 2 months, hubby does not work fighting for disabitly(spelling?) for 3 years on his back and legs , he can move around pretty good some days are better
With that little bit of background here the problem
He Does Not have do any thing with me no hugs kisses etc unless i beg (And Just for the ones that say cheating nope i wish it was that easy) And he not brought any money in the last 3 1/2 years
He talks to ever one else , does thing with others
i have tried any thing i can think of to make things better,
talk ,leave him alone i am just about ready to leave we do have 2 little girls and that is why i am still tring to work this out
now every thing that happen is my fault ,and if i leave it will be blamed on me
i know his family wants my 2 kids so here lays yet a other problem if i leave
if i leave and sell all chickens ducks and dogs way over 100 chickens and ducks we do up for winter meat
he would have place to stay and my kids would stay in the home that they live in now and he would not be living with his parents so the kids would be ok and his family would not be there all the time
or if i stay here then he goes to his parents and the kids stay nights and morning till i could get them and who know what would go on .
i am only 28 and lost on what to do
i have prayed and i feeling that i should stay put a little longer but my heart is hurting and my head lets go!! and deal with crap that hits fan later
