Glad to have found this thread. Trying to look back through all the old posts
We homeschool both of our kids & our style is eclectic, leaning towards unschooling. Our son (5th grade) started on ABCya & is now doing Khan Academy, the BrainQuest grade 5 workbook, & a math practice book we found here (k-5 are available for free, might be helpful to someone else):
http://catalog.mathlearningcenter.org/taxonomy/term/167
We're following the same basic path with our daughter (1st grade).
They're both mostly self-taught, & we've been reading to them since they were old enough to hold their heads up, which I think helped them with reading & language arts when they got older. They read, journal, & keep reading logs mostly on their own, & we do a combination of worksheets & study guides, & have used Starfall. We also study/practice sign language several times a week & Spanish once a week, & we've been doing the Six Flags reading program every year for the past couple of years.
As far as a secular curriculum, we haven't found one that quite fits & doesn't cost a lot. We tried Lesson Pathways a while back, but I don't think it's been updated in a few years. Last year, I used Ambleside & tried to customize it as best as I could. I liked that everything was all laid out. Also looked at Easy Peasy. We gave up on it & now basically make up our own curriculum.